Few Christmas movies capture the struggle of finding love better than The Holiday — sorry, Love Actually.

Ten years ago today (December 8), the house-swapping movie first premiered. We watched as Jack Black, Cameron Diaz, Kate Winslet, Jude Law, and Eli Wallach all realized that relationships are hard, and sometimes they just don't work out. Other times, a smokin' hot British guy drunkenly knocks on your door in the middle of the night, and you believe in love again.

In honor of the film's milestone anniversary, see which character is not-so-secretly you in disguise, and be sure to crank up "Mr. Brightside" and dance like nobody's watching.