Paul Wesley is nothing like his "Vampire Diaries" counterpart Stefan Salvatore. For one, he doesn't have a hero complex. He's also not the kind of guy who would get caught crying over a girl (sorry, Stef). And perhaps the biggest difference between the two: Paul knows how to laugh and have a good time. Why so serious all the time, Stefan?

Tbh, we think Paul is more like Damon Salvatore IRL. He's sarcastically charming, impulsive, and at times, he can really be a total smartass. But that doesn't mean we don't love his quirky sense of humor. Here are 12 times Wesley was more like the other Salvatore bro IRL:

That time he'd rather not.

Chris, bruh. Paul doesn't want to talk about this right now, OK?

That time he felt personally violated by Brittany Snow.

A wise woman once said, "watch out for the Regina George in sheep's clothing."

That time he forced himself into a conversation...

That was an A-B conversation, Paul.

...And then turned it into an inside joke with Daniel Gillies.

Is "miss u deepster" a thing now?

That time he drew his bro a pretty portrait.

Do you think Ian Somerhalder is in on these jokes or nah? (Our guess is nah.)

That time he didn't read the script.

So, Nina Dobrev is gone and you think it's OK to start slacking?!

That time he mercilessly teased us.

Shacking up with Grant Gustin AND Chris Wood? Be still our beating, thirsting hearts.

When he "pretended" not to know about BonKai.

Um, it's only one of the craziest "TVD" ships in recent memory, amiright?

That time he threatened to live-tweet a table read.

TELL US MORE, PAUL.

That time he trespassed in Matthew Davis' dressing room.

How. Rude.

That time he told Julie Plec to GFH.

The "TVD" family is so warm and loving!

And finally, that time he refused to respond to anything even slightly damning.

Same, tbh.