Jhene Aiko often sings about love -- but she also sings about love lost. The Los Angeles native, whose debut album, Souled Out, dropped this week, has a knack for tackling relationship issues in her music, like she did on her breakout hit, "The Worst." She's at it again on the single from the new album, "Spotless Mind" (which you can watch a live performance of below).

Besides her soft, soothing voice and the ambient production that backs her vocals, it's one of the reasons fans are drawn to the 26-ear-old's music: She has a way of addressing issues we've all dealt with and feelings we've all encountered.

So, what are Jhene's dos and don'ts during a break up? We asked, so you can heed her advice if you find yourself in that always-tough situation.