It's been a trying week for Ariana Grande. We know this because she took to Twitter to vent about the haters and jerks who've been writing stories about her alleged backstage behavior.

And how did she handle it? Like a lady, by killing them with kindness and reminding them that you get back what you put out. Here's her response in six elegant steps.

1. Laugh It Off

man some of these rumors that have been coming out about me lately actually have me laughing out loud.... really can't take em seriously

— Ariana Grande (@ArianaGrande) September 17, 2014

2. She's Rubber, You're Glue

sooner or later ppl will realize that what u put out is what u get back. the lies/hate etc. give love & I promise life will treat u better

— Ariana Grande (@ArianaGrande) September 17, 2014

3. Live For Love

4. Because All You Need Is Love

5. When In Doubt, Quote 'Rent'

6. Love Is All You Need