Three brave people venture from their home sweet homes to stay with the one they love.
Just moved to Virginia from Arizona to be with my boyfriend, who is now currently deployed. I recently found a job to try and keep myself busy and whatnot, but it's not as easy as you make it seem. It's not. My whole life has been turned upside down, I'm across the entire country, away from my family and friends. Do I regret it? No. I'm with the one I love, but still, don't act like it's that easy. It isn't.
Relocating for love isn't that easy as you guys are making it. People need to remember that it's really not for everyone to do this and it can be one of the hardest decisions to make. instead of making it like its easy as 1, 2, 3 just try to see it from their perspective. I relocated for love 2 months ago and so far it does suck dick. No friends, hard to look for work, no family, constant loneliness sometimes and you just feel out of place. At least that's how i feel so far. But I'm still trying to make it. And if I can't then I guess I'll have to go back home at some point.
Bailey is such a *****. I moved to a different city and state to be with my boyfriend and yeah it kind of sucked at first not having any of my own friends or anything here, but I have a good job and am way happier living with him than I was in my home state.
Why would you find a place to rent without a monthly income... that's stupid. I know you guys are in love but you must have finical security to successfully relocate anywhere.. that's just the basics. Love don't pay the rent
I moved to Guatemala when i was 19 THAT is hard not moving into another state this girls and guys are brats and babies. they should come stay with me in my shoes for a month and see what it really is like to relocate for love and make it work in a poor country on top of your relationship.
Bailey is being a brat. I moved to Austin, for love and found a job here I love. Even if my relationship doesn't end up working out in the long run, I'd still continue to live in Austin. Its a great city, and its not full of 'hippies'. She's probably never lived anywhere else and is just scared to move. Grow up.
yeah that's trueee, i dont think she really tried either.. maybe she doesnt know how to make new friends aha idk... >,<
i dont remember her sayin she had 3 babies.. did they say those were her kids? what episode is it?
uhm did you even watch this episode? it wasnt about young black mothers.. damn, you make it sound like she's in high school &dont have NO support from her boyfriend, & that she's "blaming the world" for her getting pregnant. ..***!? SHE HAD TO RELOCATE FOR LOVE! she just feels alone thats all, this episode had nothing to do with her baby but was the only reason why she had to drop out of college &move back but, who's to say she wont go back to college &be sucessful?, she's not struggling to take care of her baby! she knows who her baby's daddy is! she graduated from high school at least! what is there to "embrassed" about?? --,--
I get sick and tired...SICK and tired of my fellow black women making themselves look STUPID on television and in life for making dumb decisions that did not have to be made. I'm talking about the black women who were not forced into having children before their time. It's embarrassing to see a young black mother who didn't have to be a young black mother struggle because she couldn't keep her legs closed and then have the unmediated GAL to blame the whole world because the are finding out how hard it is. If I was able to say "NO", why can't you? Don't blame the world because you were mental weak and didn't have any self value for yourself!
I'm sorry, I don't feel sorry for fools who put themselves KNOWINGLY in situations like that and I won't make no apologies for it either. I made something of myself because I didn't want to be a statistic! Why can't you? That question will never be answered because its unjustifiable as far as I am concerned.
I remember Jasmine. I watched this like years ago. 3-5 years. Yeah, I mean, she had 3 babies. Dam. It gets depressing. U at home all day with 3 babies and U go into a depression. people really don't know until they are in your shoes. so stop it. no one is running from the situation but it's get old. The only thing U can do is be positive and look out for yourself. Get an education. As a young mother, I understand how she feels. I am just getting out of my depression, It up to you. It starts with U.
ME too. I job hunt. Am heading back to school. We had issues this past 2 years but things seem a little better.
true. but she has 3 babies. it's stressful.
lol. so true.
I'm sorry but Jay has some nerve to tell her they can't be together if she don't move to where he lives...But, when she asks him about moving to where she is he is like NO WAY..and that his life is where he lives...Ok...but thats what your asking your girlfriend to do...He is only thinking about himself and his needs!! RUN girl!!
Jasmine mad herself loook dumb. im saying i dont wanna judge but my opinion is i dont feel sorry for her , shee's complaining about this and that but oh well she had a baby now she gotta deal with staying there , and im sorrry as long as he bring the paycheck home why is mad ?
plus thats what these females get for 100% depending on a dude like for real , a dude will tell your ass to leave ASAP when they get mad or tired of you , just dont be depending on them all the way have some indepndence b/c they will take advantage of that AND take you for granted .
his food looked gud lol and if he wud hv just left her and not claim the kid she still wud b complaining, if he wasnt workn she wud complain, she shud b glad they neighborhood isnt all loud and etc.. thats no place to raise a kid just like all that argueing is no way to raise a kid. and her attitude wud make even a friend leave her.. she needs to grow up a lot more and "broaden her horizon" and b mor open and understanding. and he just needs to know he can nevr b right or wrong just kno its his fault lol.. smh
bailey though jay had money with his crafty lifestyle...then surprise...he has terrible debt and wants her to live with his momma..hahaha..wow.
jay is the bad guy...bailey was in terrible debt...then tells her to find an apartment while he's gonna put his place for sale and live with his momma..
and us on mtv...lol..