Kayla and Amanda must make the decision of their lives; do they raise their babies as unprepared, single mothers, or consider adoption, in hopes of providing a better life.
hi casey. i mean "sue"
I personally know Amanda and I feel like the truth needs to be said. Amanda is not a bad person. She just couldn't stand up to Rob. He is manipulative and wants the baby so he can get money from the state. He does not even take care of her... his mother does. He just sits back and collects his check every month. He only let Amanda come see the baby if she would have sex with him.... and after a while he wouldn't even let her come see her at all. I think Amanda should have stood up for herself or atleast told the police how he treats her, but thats another story. Amanda wanted Alex to go to a loving family, but Rob RUINED it. He is selfish and manipulative and just an all around bad person. I pray for Alex that she will grow up and realize that her mommy wanted what was best for her but Rob just wouldnt have it. I feel so bad for her knowing that she is not getting the love and care that she could have gotten from Cliff and Conio. By the way... the only reason Amanda got pregnant with Alex is because Rob refuses to use condoms. What does that tell you?
I don't think anyone should blame Amanda for not seeing your daughter, Rob pressured her into keeping it when she wasn't ready so it only makes sense that he should raise it by himself.
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I can't believe Amandas babies dad would smoke right next to her, and she would let it happen. No offence to them, but that right there says they should not raise a little baby, but Rob did seem to really care about the baby and he could be better at parenting then Amanda.
He has a right not too. It's his baby too. If she wanted to give the baby up, thats her right. But it's also the father's to not automatically agree with the mother. I'm glad he kept his foot down and kept the baby.
how do you know that giving the baby up would have been best? not all adoption stories end up happy and not all two parent households raise happy, well adjusted kids.so what if he lives with his parents, love is all the baby needs.
stop smoking near a pregnant lady rob!
where's the update video?
I feel so bad for the two guys who were hoping to adopt Amanda's baby. You could tell she wanted to give them the baby even at the end. Rob was controlling and manipulative and forced her to do something she didn't want to do. I guess since he's the bio dad though he had a right to keep the baby. Too bad he couldn't see what would be best for Alex like Amanda could. And for everyone who's saying bad stuff about her, didn't she say that she was adopted and her birth mother gave her up because she was schizophrenic? That kind of thing can be hereditary. She did the best she could without any help from anybody. Kayla, my heart goes out to you. You are an amazing person. Isabella is going to have so many wonderful opportunities because of what you did.
Paternity test? Did you see that baby's face? If Rob shaved off all his facial hair and wrapped himself in a blanket you wouldn't be able to tell the two apart. The double standard thing is so true though. No one would have batted an eyelash if Rob was the one coming around once a month.
Everyone needs to give Amanda a break. She made foolish decisions we all do at some point in our lives. Grow up. She wanted to give the baby up but the father didn't deal with it.
Everyone watched the update video...she expalins herself and she now is back with the daugther
I think people need to give Amanda a break. She just wasn't ready to be a mom. Most in her positon would've had an abortion. At least she gave her daughter life. If she doesn't want to parent she will just be depressed and resentful so its best she isn't Alex's primary parent. This double standard it unfair too. Most wouldn't say anything about a father who saw their child 3 times in 2 months but because she's the mother more is expected out of her. While I do agree Rob should not expose his children to smoke, I think he is amazing. Very few and far between are there men who will have anything to do with a child conceived from a one night stand. Did he ever even question paternity? Maybe he should be working, but being a parent is a full time job and daycare would cost more than he could make. If his mom is willing to support him then its probably better he stay home to raise his children.
not good to smoke around a pregnant woman...my sons' father and my father smoked around me during my second pregnancy (with my first son) and my 3 year old son has asthma now
yup my ex use to smoke around me when i was pregnant with my son and he has asthma now
I feel that Amanda got the **** end of the stick. All she wanted was a good life for her daughter and she got pushed into making a decision she did not feel was right for her or her daughter at the time. Rob is a piece of ****. He's and fat old man who lives with mommy and daddy. Grow up and start supporting your children if you think you deserve them so badly and stop smoking around pregnant women!
yes it bothered me alot...like he cant step outside!! My fiance was not even allowed to hold our son after he smoked until he washed his hands and changed his shirt and he happily did because he is a real man and father!!
Wow amanda is so selfish and stupid. She could have given this child potential. She took it all away. I respect the dad for trying but he's obviously in over his head.
give kayla a break people. shes a better mother then amanda and im proud of her for staying sober.
