From seeing to fleeing, find out the scoop on Bailey and Jay's relationship after the cameras stopped rolling.
YEP> TRUE-TRUE> COOK THAT MAN SOME DINNER but I understand how she feels. But just the 1st 3 days. It's can be lonely but Kept the spark alive, do something special for the dude, when he kepts home.
Jay is a loser and he needs to get his **** together, then Jasmine, girl u need to just try. I understand being a young mother. but when your man comes homes, fix him some dinner and do something special. Put the baby down at night before he gets home. U know. I mean, dam.
Bailey you and Jay are too cute together. I dont think us seeing this little bit in your lives can have us say anything bad about Austin. He has a job there and you dont (or didnt) have one at all so you moving seemed like the best idea. maybe you two if you do make it can move to a different area in Texas that is CLOSE to austin but not in austin.
to Jasmine you need to grow up! your a mom now and the baby needs her daddy more then you having a SOCIAL life. millions of moms sit at home all day and do NOTHING. if you dont like it you could of used a condom and not gotten pregos.. your man is TRYING to take care of you and his baby and being the man. YOU NEED to stop ********. when he gets off work he doesnt need to hear you *****. he doesnt need to hear you ***** when hes at work. WHY NOT YOU call for things to get done since all you do is Sit and stare at the walls?! get a life and grow up
Ok, at Jasmine, here's the deal. Baby daddy is a complete JACKASS! It really doesnt matter what age you are or how inexperienced you are, he had total disregard for the fact that you were having a little PPD and separation anxiety. Ya'll just had a baby together, he couldnt even ask you how you were feeling or if you were going ok. It's the SMALL things that always count. So, you definitely made the best decision for you and your baby. Just remember, just because you had a baby with him, does not mean you have to be with him, ESPECIALLY IF THERE'S SOMETHING MISSING! I ( You looked beautiful after you had that baby, and you have an awesome family!!!!!)
ok, at Bailey, he's a loser and a liar! dump him you can find a REAL MAN!
I just saw the show today - i guess a repeat. Bailey/Bailey/Bailey or dear dear Bailey. Forgive me for being blunt but I have to in this case especially after hearing the follow up video...A) Jay does not love you dear. B) Jay is not ready to commit C) Jay is stuck in Jay's world and doesn't see beyond Jay. A real man does not ask a woman to move in with him with the assumption that they will live in their apartment - then decide oh my bills take priority here so why don't i move my girl and i to my parents house. That is total disrespect for the woman he was dating. Jay could have discussed all his moving plans before she moved to Austin so that she could make an informed decision. I don't care if Jay told her about your financial situation - moving in with parents is another discussion all together. This girl followed Jay and Jay did not give a damn at all. He is a selfish SOB that Bailey should run away from. Let me tell you - love is kind, love is not selfish, love is respect, love is friendship and love is giving. Bailey gave and gave. I am glad they broke up - now woman get your own life and let go - if its meant to be he will come back but stop talking after breaking up - that never works. Listen Bailey you are a GORGEOUS girl okay? so many men would want you and move mountains for you. Don't ever sell yourself short or settle for second best. Jay is second best - he will not give you the fulfillment you need. I say this because i see women doing this all the time...hanging in there as the man plays the field and does his thing/follows his dreams etc. They cling to the hope that he will come back or things will work out - a man will never know what he lost if you are giving him air time everyday. Give life a chance - you are young and beautiful - go find a man who will give you his time and the world (by world i don't mean riches - i mean himself). Jay will never give you his all - he is into himself...he will never walk a step towards you - you will be the one making all the steps towards him. All women reading this know what i am talking about - there two categories of men. The selfish and the unselfish. We go to selfish because we have unresolved issues with our fathers who were never there/or worked too much to make time for us...so seek inside your heart and ask yourself - why you would go for a man or even still love a man who will not make time for you? I know you broke up - i say this because you are still talking. Moving on means breaking all the ties so that you can seek your own happiness and open doors that God have waiting on you. You may be missing out on alot while you are hoping for a reunion with Jay. Jay came into your life to teach you something - now grow some balls and move up the ladder of love. Jay is the bottom-no disrespect but when a man is about himself - he is not yet on the ladder of love. He is still growing to understand himself better or maybe never will if he is letting a woman like you slip from his hands. Just move on Bailey - grow up and move on..love hurts but what hurts more is clinging to the one you love - who will not return your feelings. You don't rock Jay's world that is why he has no place for you in his world right now - he gives you only 10 minutes. You deserve more than that - don't you think Bailey? (Let me also tell you that if you keep giving him time-10 minutes here or there, he will take it - because men never want us to move on to other men, yet they won't give us what we want at times - its a selfish thing that men do so girl break loose. He will do what he wants while you keep hoping for what you know is not working). I watched the show and felt sad for you even before you moved to Austin and was hoping you don't move because the writing was on the wall - you could not see it but i could. A man is the easiest thing in the world to read...always believe them when they show you and when they talk to you about their true feelings (meaning things they say and how they act or react to your suggestions/ideas) his actions will always speak to you better than any friend's advise or your own self influenced persuasion. He will always show you where he stands - it may be pretty or not..but dear in this case it was clear even before you moved to Austin. Good luck and God bless - now get off that Chevy and get a Mercedes..:))) you deserve every bit of it. As for you Jay - you are such an idiot, you are not that handsome at all and yet your girl was really hot and seems like a good person. You just lost a jewel because of your selfish self who won't see beyond your own needs. One day you will realize what you lost and by then another man will have taken her. Then who will be the looser here? will all the credit resolution be worth loosing such a beautiful woman? Its your lives i know but now we the viewers are involved and can post our views. Those are my harsh opinions - after all we live in the real world.
lol she could of done better then him.
hey you both need to work thing out.
This show hit home for me because I am in both of your shoes. I moved to be with my boyfriend, but I am the one with the debt. Telling my boyfriend about my debt was embarrassing and horrible, and although he wasn't exactly prince charming about it at first, I do understand that it is something that no one wants to be handed when they are in a relationship. It's my own problem that I caused all by myself, and it is my responsibility to take care of it. But I did tell him early on in the relationship and I am very close to getting it handled. It's something I feel I need to take care of before we can start a life together as husband and wife because it's a lot of baggage to take into a new, wonderful chapter of your life. As to the moving part, it is a lot to take in. Because one person gets to have their family and friends, while the other person is completely dependent on their partner as they chose to leave their entire support system behind. It's a big pill to swallow, but if the other person understands that and makes your happiness his priority, then it can be a wonderful thing. He has to understand that he must fill in those spaces of best friend, family member, etc. I am very lucky that this is my case. I still have hard times, like my birthday and holidays, but you know, you have to become your own little unit and do the best to make sure the other person is happy.
I hope you guys can work it out, and that time leads you both to the place or places, that are meant for you.
keep austin weird! if you dont like it, get out. and stay out. ;)
i just read a couple of the comments belowwww, it seems to me that bay was more open minded because she was willing to leave her home to be in some place she's really unfamiliar with. jay wasn't even willing to say to bay that "hey because im in love with you, i'm willing to relocate for love too." i remember jay giving bay a ultimatum and thats just not how a relationship should work at all.. now i know jay had a business going on but it didn't even seem like he was trying to hear her side out and maybe do the long distances relationship still until financially things start to settle.
interesting episode and it sucks that it didn't work out for the both of yah. i believe that things happen for a reason and if it was meant to be then you guys will find each other again. now onto the rest of my comments... no offense jay but you looked really bad in the show but i guess thats tv does to people, make em choose sides. i really hope that you tried to make things work out behind the scenes because bay really looked like she was upsettt... well back to studying for my midterms, live a good life and don't let a deflated heart stop you from doing whatll make yah ultimately happy =]
Real and honest Bay and Jay! XO T
Puttin' it out there is very hard - I can't imagine you two - now you have to listen to EVERYONE's opinion! You both know what you need to do to make it work. (finances - Jay is taking ownership - it's tough out there for MANY and I know couples everywhere are dealing with it) Look at it as an opportunity for growth! luv you both, T
I know you BOTH - and know what is in your heart - the connection is real and no matter what happens in the future for each of you individually - you will FOREVER remain in eachothers lives (and mine)! lol
Bay here - I've yet to see the show (I'm on the west coast), but keep the comments coming please!!! Would love to see what outsiders think;) And Jay, quit defending yourself...
You shouldnt have to roll with the punches when you thought you were moving to a city to be in an apartment of your own with your boyfriend. I dont blame Bailey one bit for leaving because Jay was selfish and didnt even discuss the finances or the apartment rental, he just did it while she was gone for the weekend... weak a$$ punk.. Be a man and stand up, you screwed her over and now she is back in the sea where she belongs, on the available list..
This comment is for Stevie, what you wrote to Bailey just shows how close minded you are about your city, because you were born and raised there. I have been to Austin and know how wonderful and fun it is. One of my best friends went to UT for graduate school, Bailey took the plunge and moved there with open mind and then was smacked in the face by Jay's debt, which he should have disclosed much sooner as well he then took the one and only comfort out from under her that would keep her there.. their own place, privacy.. the apartment. Jay should have come up with some other way of fixing his financial issue rather than expecting her to live with his parents... Come on a couple, she is 23, he looks like he is 30.. You cannot have a relationship built on omission.. and end the end omission is lying. I moved to Colorado to be with my fiance because I was given the same ultimatum as Bailey, my fiance couldnt do the distance anymore.. I moved and gave it nearly a year before coming back and I went twenty thousand dollars in debt trying to make it work and living out there because he wanted to be a good Christian couple and live seperately.. IT WONT WORK IF ONE OF YOU DOESNT TELL THE WHOLE TRUTH...