SuChin Pak talks with the 'Teen Mom' cast, along with other teen moms, about the issues that came up in episode 7.
i think no one has the right to judge amber because its obvious that the camera isnt rolling 24/7 so theres no telling what gary could be doing when the cameras not rolling. just because she has a poor relationship with gary doesnt mean she will have that with her daughter. i seen plenty of great moms have poor relationships with the father that doesnt mean her reaction is right but it doesnt mean she is a poor mother there never showed a episode were she was abusive to leah.using her child or being violent to her child shes being violent towards gary and he deff pushes her buttons hes not as sweet as he apears he says things he knows will get under her skin and is wrong to do to a person that he knows is dealing with depression i think she acting out that way towrds gary because she is going through depression again thats not an excuse for abuse but it is a hard thing to go through she should be seperated from gary not her child because shes not ab and they are not looking for new baby daddies they never came on the show saying were finding someone to replace the father alot of times in teen pregnancy the parents dont stay together what are they suppose to never date again because of that ...thats not realistic. there all good moms and doing the best they can people are so negative and always look at the negative side of everything instead of looking deeply into things and farrah is crying for a reason shes very hurt heic whatr babys father died who would make front of how she crys instead of being sympathetic to her situation what an a$$ ....anyways love the show i definately can relate as teen mom
why does farrah look so ugly when she cries..?
i cant believe they're looking for new baby daddies for their kids and dont think they sound so sto0o0o0opid!
I absolutely love this show!!! Coming from the fact that I had my son @ 17yrs old. My thoughts are Amber needs to get some help & I'm not understanding why she quit her job when Gary got a job she should hav kept her job. Farrah needs to be more understanding with her mom when it comes to her child....she might not get along with her mom bt until her moms disappoints her daughter she should hav no problems with her mom from what I see she's good with Sophia & Sophia loves her. Maci is a good mother I think she's doing very well for herself. Catelynn I LOVE you & Tyler you guys are strong & great for each other your doing very well considering the situation with your mom!!! I see alot of myself in each one of them!!! I had my first son @ 17 stayed in school & graduated while I worked full-time. I moved out of my parents house @ 18 & then had my 2nd son. I'm now 25 still with my kids father & have 3 boys worked for the City of Ft Myers for 6yrs & nw I'm in college bt what I'm trying to say is ladies dnt give up now that you've had the kids life don't stop keep moving forward no matter what!!!
It is never ok to hit on your bf for no reason. I think Gary is being a real good father. he should take leah until amber gets some help. The rest of the girls are great. Ferrah need to chill a but i think she takes things to personal with her mom at times other than that i believe she is doing great as well. I love Caitlyn and Tyler there great and very strong for what they done.
Very well said...
omg amber is from indiana!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG...
I agree. AMBER is a total !*%#). Gary total deserves custody. HE stayed cool even when she was abusing him. Even when she almost kicked him down the stairs. RUN, GARYAND LEAH, RUN. MACI is a really good mom. I did the same thing she is doing by trying to keep it mutual agreements and no court and i dont have any problems. My daughter is eight now so its been good. Good job Maci and stay tough and i hope everything goes well. CATELYNN... I think of u no less for giving ur baby up for a better life. I love the fact u still keep in contact also. That must have been hard for u both. Stay strong and remember u may not be there alot but the fact ur there is truelly awesome. Keep working to get ur diploma and u'll do great. FARRAH... u are so strong and i really have heartache for u just listening to the stuff ur mom says to u. I also was a teen mom and to hear ur mom say that she thought u shouldnt meet with ur babies dads family made me say words i cant write if u know what i mean. Either way its gonna be emotional. I'm truelly sorry for saying this if it affends u "***** ur mom". That is ur daughters family and i cant imagine the pain u feel without him. Very tragic loss. I literally sat in my chair and cried throughout your story.Theres not very many men out there that would be willing to stay with someone even if it was not his even though it is He sounds like he would have been a wonderful father. I have so much love for u and u do what u feel is right, NOT what ur mom says. Love ya Farrah and my heart will always be with u.
I agree that Maci is a fantastic mom. I also agree that Amber does not need to have custody of Leah until she gets some help for her anger and violent tendencies. This is a very dangerous situation for Leah. I,myself was a teen mom and it is never easy, but you do what you have to do for your children. I am lucky, in that I have a wonderful husband and support from our family. I now have grandchildren and I love being a mom & grandma.
you have them pin pointed i couldnt of put it better myself
wow michelle has summed it up to the t just about. Farrah i cant even to begin to imagine what it feels like to lose your babies daddy omg i would die.. catelyn im not sure how you did it just let her go not that i think any less of you for it but i could never see myself doing that im 19 and hints i have 2 babies a boy noah who is 2 and a girl nevaeh who will be one next month on the 11th.. maci you are my role model i think your amazing i try to be all i can for my kids.. and amber amber amber holy s*** I have been where you are with the anger issue with my kids dad and let me tell you it gets you no where and it is really rude of people to sit and talk s*** when only the bad drama filled stuff is what gets put on tv but man that stuff shouldnt even be happening to be put on tv. i mean i feel your pain all of you i feel you i had 2 by 18 its hard i know it is but the chasing the baby daddy to make sure hes in my kids life is an all well do what you want now cuz the longer your gone the happier i am..farrah youve improved maci your just awesome catelyn it took some courage to let her go and im sure your happy everytime that theres a fight or drama going on that carlys not there to witness it and amber amber amber be nice just breath and chill out there is no need for all that especially wen you have tiny baby leah eyes seeing your rage seeking for acceptance.....
Yes, once in a while.
Amber is a lost cause, and needs to go to jail. So what if Maci's mom feeds or bathes Bently, you don't see Maci in the streets partying or just leaving him all the time to go out with her friends. Those are the moments grandparents enjoy. Farrah in season 1, I did't like her at all but seeing all shes been through, I can understand why she is depressed and resents her mom. She's the reason why Sophia's dad wasn't around and now he's dead. Catelynn's mom needs help herself, I feel sorry for Catelynn hope she is successful and finishes school.
If I could give out a Mother of the Year Award, it would go to Maci!! She's a fantastic mom, and by far, the best mom on the show! She's patient, kind, responsible, nurturing, and most importantly....puts Bentley before everyone & everything! You never see her yell, lose her temper, or play games out of spite. Bentley is sooo lucky to have her as a mom. I wish her the best of luck w/everything & truly hope she & Kyle can have a Wonderful future together. Now, although I feel that Farrah is a good mom (a better mom than most), I do feel that she is a spoiled brat. I will give her credit for trying to become more independent & mature, but sometimes that bratty side of her shows its ugly head (ie: epi of her birthday). She lacks a lot of common sense (ie: car scam), but she's learning & you cannot deny her lack of trying to be a better mom. Catelyn, well she obviously never had very good role models. Her mom is a complete (female dog) & that has nothing to do w/her anger about the adoption. You can tell that is her personality, especially w/being a alcoholic. Catelyn & Tyler were not ready to be parents - Tyler said it best "it takes more than love to raise a child". Tyler is by far very MATURE for is age, which I'm sure he has his mom to thank. He was lucky to have a positive influence in his life, but Catelyn didn't have that. I think if they kept Karly, it would be worse than the Amber & Gary situation.... Amber!!! She definitely needs stronger meds & a ton more counseling & anger management. I'm shocked that CPS hasn't stepped in already. She's verbally & physically abusive to Gary & a lazy selfish person! That GORGEOUS little girl spends all day wandering around the house. I never see Amber spend any kind of quality time w/her. Yes, Gary can be lazy & annoying, but you can tell her loves that little girl very much. I cannot honestly say the same for Amber. I see a teen mom who recents her daugher for taking away her youth. I've seen that 1st hand & it can be ugly. What happens when Gary isn't around for her to take out her anger on?!?! Lets face it...she loses her temper everyday! She really needs to focus on getting help cuz she's gonna lose that little girl!
Farrah does not need to step up. She is the best freaking mom on that show. She is not going to get over derek when that was her first love and his and now she is raising his child by herself and everyday she looks at sophia and sees him. I could not imagine how that feels and plus she has an insensitive mom and no one to be there for her emotionally, financially, or anything. She stepped up to the plate and is a better mom than a lot of grown ass women. And about amber... Yes i dont believe it is healthy for leah to be around the arguments but I dont at all think that she should be taken away from amber because if that was the case then no one would have parents because everyone blows up once in awhile. Gary seems so passive and innocent but wouldn't you be pissed if you were supporting his lazy ass and he is texting another girl infront of you? Yeah he deserves a ***** slap...sorry Gary. I think amber is so angry with him and cares about him but he isn't going to change and that's why she gets so angry. Amber Gary is not going to be the person in your head that you think he is going to grow up and be. You guys need to stop getting back together and breaking up, it is stressing Leah out. But I still think Leah should not be taken away from her mother.
None of us are perfect parents, and you have to remember that the show is only gonna show things that are gonna shock you or make you respond the way you are. It isn't gonna show you the happy times or all the "good" parenting moments, because lets face it, THAT'S BORING!!! I think that all of these girls are doing a damn good job for how young they are. There are plenty of things I obviously don't agree with (the way Amber treats her boyfriend), but I'm not gonna lie and say that I haven't made the same mistakes. Everybody grows up differently and has different ways of dealing with things and sometimes you can't handle life. You can say, "too bad, you're a mom now so deal with it", but you better be prepared to prove that you're perfect. I am guilty of almost every thing these girls have done on the show. We all get fed up once in a while, we all leave the baby on the couch or somewhere they shouldn't be at least once, we all wish we had someone to bathe and feed and watch our kid(s) so we can have a moment to ourselves, and some of us have even had the experience of losing a child(abortion, miscarriage, adoption). However, this does not make me, or anyone, an unfit mother or selfish. It makes me a human being. I applaud all of these girls for allowing us into their lives so that we know what being a mother is really like because you're not gonna get the true version watching "Growing up with the Kardashians." Keep loving your babies, girls, and Gary because that is what they're going to remember. Love the show and love being a mommy.
okay well first of all maci, i think you're a great mother and you're doing a great job and bentley is adorable.but you are crazy for leaving! you had everything you needed there and i loved your family! hopefuly things work out with your new man. catelyn, you made the right decision for yourself but you can't expect other people to be happy with the fact that you took that adorable little girl wawy from them. i could never see myself giving up my child nomatter what the case may be. farrah, i think you need to try harder and understand that even though you lost derek, you still have sophia and that's a blessing. that little girl depends on you and you should be happy to have her. you need to put more effort into her and open up more. and for you amber, you need to grow up and get anger managment. you need to realize you have a kid and thats all that matters now. no more of this little kid relationship drama. take care of your daughter and stop stressing dum ****. you also need to pay more attention to her. you never realize what you have until it's gone and i feel like that's going to happen with you. gary is a good guy and you disrespect him too much. thats not cool. and you take out your anger from gary onto the baby. i think its hard being a teen mom because i am one as well but you can always find a way to make it better and just appreciate the child you have and how much they love you and need you. it's all going to be worth it in the end!
I feel really bad for farrah i thought she was a spoiled brat but i think she is just sad. I think she will be good as time goes!!! Good luck too farrah!!
Amber is a fool!! Girl is a lost cause!!! Waste of air!! She needs to find herself by herself sooner than later!!! She is a miserable, evil person!!!! Get her off the air already!!!
I wish Caitlyn's mother would take herself to rehab. Looking at how she acts, she is doing more than just drinking alcohol.