Maci wonders what will happen if Ryan takes her to court.
Does anyone know why Ryan and Dalis broke up?
For real... and I looked at the first teen mom episodes and Maci never raised her voice to him once... she was nicer then anyone I've ever seen when confronting their boyfriend or baby daddy... she tried so hard to make it work that its sad
Farrah had/has her parents which is just as bad as a man in and outta her kids life. Farrah is useless and needs to grow up and realize its not about her anymore.
Farrah doesn't have a man either. But yeah, I love Maci, too!
These girls are amazing! but Maci is special, because she has been the only one who has survived without a man next to her, she is strong I love her!
First of all, I absolutely LOVE each of these girls and have watched them since the beginning. I would like to start with Maci and Ryan, I think that its a shame that Ryan is too stubborn to admit that he loves Maci and that he covers it up by treating her badly. I think in the beginning they loved eachother and having Bently put some strain on that because Maci was ready to grow up and be responsible and Ryan was not. However, it always takes two to argue and I think Maci made the mistake of trying to make Ryan grow up. Men hate that, they need to figure it out on their own so they can feel like they did it on their own and so we don't think we are the boss, lol. I would love to see Ryan turn over a new leaf and treat Maci with respect, and I would love to see Maci try harder to be patient with Ryan(even though I know how hard that would be) and let him figure things out the hard way. I think Bently would be ecstatic if a miracle happened and they were able to work things out. 000a As far as Ryan's parents go,I think what people are saying is right, they baby him. He is not a child anymore. Maci had to grow up and so should he. He isn't taking life serious and he needs to, and they all need to stop blaming Maci for everything. It makes me sick when they sit around stroking his ego, and allow him to come down on Maci. They should be telling him to set an example for Bently by treating his mom (Maci) with respect. Ryan seems to get a thrill out of calling Maci a stupid idiot in front of Bently as well as in front of Ryan's new girlfriend. How would he like it if Maci did that to him? Not too much, I'm sure. He should be embarassed that Kyle has been a better example to Bently then himself (although it looks like Kyle has recently made some very bad decisions, it still doesn't hold a candle to Ryan's). 000a Anyway, keep your head up, Maci. You're a smart girl, and things will work out for you, I'm sure. Don't let Ryan get to you, he can tell that you still care and he is feeding off of that, but when you stop caring, I have a feeling he will be wanting you back. But by then it will be too late.....000a
Cassie your so right --as Maci's mom said about using birth control. I like Maci's mom cause she lhelpes Maci think for herself and be herself and let her learn in life. Ryan is so immature and will stay that way cause his parents enable him to be that and he will do nothing but flit from one women to another.000a000aBefore Ryan's parents encourage Ryan to seek part custody then they should see to it he is mature enough for it. They are only doing it cause they have been the ones having 000ato support Bentley and they may resent that.Good parents would see to it he takes responsibility himself instead of paying his bills and letting him run around with all these other women and acting like a kid. You treat kids like kids and that is what you will get.000a000aRyan is no doubt going to be a womanizer going from women to women all his life.He cannot be in a relationship cause he will never be responsible. It is far better for Bentley to see loving relationship than non loving.
Maci's my favorite!
I wish some would just like my parents. My parents divorced when I was six years old and my youngest sister just shy of a year. I'm 22 now. They have five kids together. My parents are best friends though. My mom gave my dad primary parent because my dad has money and knew we'd have a better life with him. But my mom was over at my dads every day. TO this day, my mom stays the night at my dads house and we all go out to dinner. My parents are best friends.. So people are just better of as friends than married people and my parents are those people. They can even go as far as joking like joke proposals and stuff like that. It takes REALLY mature people to do that. Maci and Ryan need to focus on BENTLEY only ...not who their dating and everything else.
Thats where I am. My son just turned four on July 4th and i was with his sperm donor all through high school and my senior year I got pregnant and he told me that if I didn't get an abortion that we were done...needless to say I didn't speak to him again until at the hospital when my son was being born. I have texted and called and made attempts for him to see my son and spend time with him. He would. Once a week for a little while and then get bored of it. Of course I would always be there because I wouldn't trust leaving my child with him. It hurts my heart to know he doesn't see or feel about my child the way I do. Although I'm sure that would be damn near impossible. I'm 22 years old about to graduate college with my Bachelor's degree from THE ohio state University. My son is four and has been raised by the man he calls his dad who is now my husband. He stepped in and gave my son a father figure and loves him as his own blood. Ryan is more concerned about who his next lay is rather than his child. Maybe one day he'll grow up, but as of right now, his priorities aren't straight. And if it wasn't for Dalis and Ryan's parents, Ryan would not seek shared custody. THey have just pounded it in his head over and over.
I have supported maci. I have a 3 year old. so I have been in the same situation as maci but a little different my daughter's dad never wanted to be in my baby's life even from the beginning. so i hope everything goes in Maci's favor. Even thou we dont have the same issues i still support her.
I have been in Maci's shoes as well and have supported her. I have a three year old. I finally got over my first love.
Nena trust me it is true when u have kids with someone you do deal with that person your entire life maybe not as much after 18 yrs old for some but u do My parents have 3 kids together Im 31, my sisters 28 and my brother s 24 ys old My parents are complete opposite, cant stand each other (but still to is day try to get along for their sanity & for us kids/grandkids for most part) and no love left for one another They divorced 22yrs ago! Today Id say they HAVE to talk or see each other at least n average Of 2 times a week sometimes more but Id be surprised if any less. There are a million reasons just to name a few:000a1. Emergency situations with the kid(s) (example but not limited to hospital stays, Squad called, car wreck, major issues w/ a kid for instance addiction/crime) 000a2. Emergency situations with any of the 9 grandkids000a3. Trying to get hold of the kid(s) & can’t so call to see if they are there or if he/she has seen them000a4. Holidays (maybe not all but some I guarantee & this don’t mean u spend xmas morning together unwrapping gifts but maybe the adult kid prepares a dinner & wants them both there instead of choosing only one)000a5. Kids birthdays & definitely grandkids birthdays000a6. Get togethers (parties, dinners, celebrations of all types)000a7. When you are worried about the child its necessary to discuss it with the other parent with any concerns rather it be mentally/physically/emotionally, maybe their relationship, the way they do certain things like raise they’re child (cause lets face it some lead piss poor lifestyles while others may not)000a8. Kids/grandkids graduations, weddings, receptions, the birth of they’re/your grandchild(s)000a000aThere are a million reasons involving the children or grand kids for split parents to talk for life & I know as for myself I am not and will not have 2 bday parties for my children so both parents can come I have only one bday party or any type of selebration & tell my parents theyre invited if they are good grandparents & love thir grandchild they will put aside their differences to celebrate My parenst/step parents always do I t may be awkard at 1st but everyone gets us to it & eventually it teaches them to get along set aide differences for a moment
Ikr, ryan is an idiot and that girl DALIS wil always be a third will. If you can remmber she saying something in one of the episode, when maci said she's dont talking and dalis said GOOD. I was so mad, if it was me, I was guna punch her. Ryan and dalis wil never last. and Ryan is an *******. his imature and ridiculous. Like ***! is wrong with u
she is only going to be in comunication with ryan for how long she wants to be ,but if she moves on and lets it be about bently only and dont worry about ryan than i say maci only has till bently is about 18yrs old after that bently can call ryan on his own...why do people say that you have to deal with that other person for the rest of your life ,its not true
Ryan is just the kind of guy who will not be faithful to one women and why Maci needs to move on and have a certain arms length to the guy cause he does nothing but try to be an upset in her life. They have a child together and will be in communication the rest of their lives but that is where it begins and ends. Ryan will always be a foolish child and no women needs that in their life. Children's place are for children to take not adults.Ryan will never grow up and always be a child mentally.000a000aMaci is just like the rest of us we all fall in love with that first love but we don't know what love is till we meet that right one and then we will know and the day comes we may even be a little embarrassed at what we thought we saw and felt in that first love. Its life and life is about learning and growing not staying dormant in one stage.
You don't have to tell me twice... Maci's been in love with this guy to this present day and he has probably never even loved her one bit...Ryan is always trying to put it out there how much he doesn't like Maci and to desperately prove how much he loves he current girlfriend..Well it is my belief that if you can't respect the one girl that gave him a son I don't believe he is capable of loving anyone period. No matter how much he tries to convince himself. You don't love one girl in your life and treat another one like **** if you truley have love in your heart. Anyway, I have been in Maci's shoes and it took me exactly 5 years to get over my first love...One day she will be totally free...She's almost there.