Farrah makes an announcement that catches Debra by surprise in next week's Reunion - airing Tuesday at 10/9c.
Ryan still sucks his family really sucked at raising him first he parties insteed of taking care of his family and then he does not want to pay child suporst then everyone knows pre-school helps with your childs learning and Ryan did want that either and I hope kyle beats you like the dead beat you are Dallas your a *** stay out of it your nothing you will not even last and I hope your baby daddy treats you as bad as Ryan treated Maci. She is a wounderful mother. I wish u the best Maci
I think what Becky was saying was that she has her struggles but she's still a mom as there are many of us that are. She is not the only one with depression either. Many women suffer with deppression numerous times in their lives. Are you saying that every time it gets ruff we should abandon our children? I certainly hope not. Farrah's mom suffers with depression too.... are you saying Farrah shouldn't leave Sophia with her? As mother's or parents we need to do what's best for our kids. For me personally, there is never a reason to leave my children. They are my motivation to keep pressing on. To wake up every morning and do what I gotta do for them. They will always have the best that I can give them and Im in that equation. Me. Im here for them every day. This is Farrah's choice, Becky's choice and there are alot of mom's who would never leave their child for two years to go to school. Wether someone wants to leave their child cause they think it's best or wether we choose to struggle with them by our side. We love our kids and we each know what we could cope with and what they could cope with (our children) and noone should criticize anyone for making that choice. If Farrah wants to be with HER daughter, who are we to judge something like that and call her selfish for wanting to be with her daughter. If someone wants to move away, who are we to judge someone for wanting to move away. We each have the right to go to whatever school we want, live wherever we want and take our children where ever we go. Why hate Farrah for making choices with her life.
Im glad she's taking Sophia with her. I think that it really is the best thing for both of them to be together. I don't understand how anyone could think that seperating Sophia from her mother would be best. I think alot of people don't understand Farrah cause they have a hard time understanding other people and the choices they make. For those people who made the choice to leave their child with their parents while they get stable....I get it, don't get me wrong and that's fine, for them. You can't blame a mother for not wanting to be away from her child or criticize her for it, that's worst. Every parent has the right to make their own decisions as parents and decide what's best for their child. Why should Farrah be any different. She knows it's not gonna be easy but atleast theyll be together. I really don't understand all the hate for Farrah cause she's had it pretty ruff and she's trying to work on the issues with her parents. Her parents should never try to get in the way of her moving somewhere or interfere in her deciding where to live or what school to go to and they need to treat her with respect cause she's not a little girl anymore. They should support her as long as she's trying to progress and go somewhere in life. Im glad that Farrah is strong willed cause if her parents had their way they would control her every move. That's not being a good parent. As a parent myself I want my children to one day learn to be independent and here we have Farrah who is trying to be independent and people are criticizing her for it and if she was dependent on her parents people would still be criicizing her. Farrahs mom and dad don't want to be away from Sophia. Debra said it so many times. But she wants Farrah to be away from Sophia!? I think she is very selfish to say that and to try to put doubt in Farrah's mind to manipulate her into leaving Sophia so se wouldn't be without her. There are alot of reason's to leave Sophia and alot of reason's to take her. But the one that Sophia needs is her mom, her only parent. Anyone who has ever worked a day of their life and left their child wether it be with their grandma or with their father or anyone else knows that her baby will miss her. When I worked, my son would call me every lunch break I had. Now that Im home he calls his dad. There aint ever a time when he asks to call his grandma or grandpa. He loves them, but we are the one's he needs. The love between a mom or a dad and their child is irreplaceable. If the parent is a good parent that is. And Farrah to me looks like she's a good mom. So there you go.
Farrah is selfish plain and simple. The only reason she is moving to Florida is to get away from her mother BUT her mother is good enough to take care of Sophia? That is very hypocritical. There are a ton of great schools in the midwest where she wouldnt have to be away from her own daughter. She needs to go to school for sure. She wont get a husband with her attitude and personality. If Farrah has postpartum she needs to get help asap. But the bottom line is that Sophia is Farrah's daughter she is HER responsibility no one else's.Farrah's mom already raised her kids and should NOT be raising her granddaughter. Help is one thing but to just leave her is another and its not right.
Another thing, she already has her Associates Degree from a community college around there.
You just said COLLEGE IS NOT GOOD AT THE EXPENSE OF YOUR CHILD! Are you and idiot? College helps a woman (especially a single mother) to succeed in the world. Perhaps a local college did not offer what Farrah needed and she had to move to find a college that offered what she needed. Don't you go telling a woman she is a piece of sh** for wanting to better herself. She might not be the nicest person, but at least she is trying to make it without her parents help. God knows the cash from MTV is not going to be there forever. So think before you write. You do not know the circumstances surrounding her decision.
u too barbara u rather have your child suffer because your a selfish mother its always whats best for thekids im tired of these ignorant females talking about leaving your child with people who love and care for them and can give them the best that life has to offer is bad parenting. no bad parenting is making your child suffer when him or her can be in a better place and you have the choice to but you dont because your selfish.
everyone who says she is selfish for leaving her daughter is just plain ignorant thats the best thing for that little girl. becky your a bad mother and i hope cps see your little comment about being depressed and having that baby in your condition is not right for her when you become a parent its not about you its about your child period you missing a couple of moments is not gonna kill you your selfish and your baby deserve better. its always wats best for the children even if its not with you. people fail to recognize that if farrah didnt have the help of her parents she wouldnt be a good mother now if she leaves and take the baby with no support her depression is gonna get worst and sophia is gonna be the one hurting. people need to really stop and think its not about farah being a bad mother its about sophia getting the best that life has to offer
I think Farrah is doing the right thing by leaving her daughter with her mom for awhile so she can get establised down in Fl. She needs time to get inrolled in school and get herself together, and it wil be alot easier w/o a baby!! We all know she loves Shophia. But Farrah needs some time by herself to heal or whatever she needs to do to get herself out of her depression. I think she should start seeing a counselor to get the tools to do so. She needs help, she crys and nevers laughs and that isn't good for the baby or for herself!! She just needs to take this time that she has by herself and get herself together for Sophia. I have faith in her, I think she can do it!! She is a strong woman and she can do anything she puts her mind to!!
I think its a good thing for farrah to leave soph with her parents if she goes to fl and does not have everything established and i good place for her kid then what?? she is doing the right thing tell she gets through collage. I dont think she is bad at all for what she is doing. Im 23 and have a 1 year old and a two year old and im sure she is hurting for leaving her but its not forever when you become a parent you have to grow up fast and make those hard choices its never easy leaving your own child but it for the good tell she gets everythign right for soph.
I am a new mommy to a beautiful little girl of 3monthsand I'm only 21. I sometimes need a little time to myself to either clean my house or run errands in town and when I do that I sometimes leave her with my mom or with her daddy. But I could not imagine leaving her for longer than a few hours tops. I don't work and currently not going to school because I'm so afraid that I'm going to miss something, I want to be there for her for everything. I want to be the first to hear her first words, see her walk and anything else.
she really talks to people like a bratty child lol so much for being educated with your associates degree farrah. you sound ilke an ass
yes u are right, when the show first came out she was a horrible mom im not goin to lie she would leave sophia with her mom and she would go out everyday she only care about her self but now i can really say she change shes a good mom her and maci are my favorite they are doing a really good job taking care of there kids but i dont think she have to go oh the way to Florida to go to college she need to be a mom and go to a newer college leaving her daughter is not right i understand shes in alot of stress bilieve me i am a mom and unlike her i dont have no1 to take care of my son and get a little brake the only brake is when i go to school or when hes sleeping so i think my life is more stressful then hers lol but what shes doing is not right i dont think that she need to go to florida to go to college i think she wants to go to college in florida like she said in 1 of her episode b4 i had sophia i was planing to go to college in florida i dont think she think about any1 alse i think shes think about her self and thats what she wanted to do when she was young and didnt have a baby she have to think about her daughter cuz thats the more importan thing in her life and she needs to go to a college newer her house
In the beginning I hated Farrah, she was worried about friends and parties. Her mom was breathing down her neck tell her it was wrong. Her mom was right. She changed and did everything for Sophia. Now her mom is BEGGING her to leave Sophia and "have Farrah time". Her mom is so messed up. While I agree it would be way to hard for Farrah to have her and move so far away, I do not believe she needs to leave until school is over. She should go get everything in order and get Sophia as soon as she is stable.
She said she'd only be leaving Sophia for about 2 weeks until she got settled. Her mom thinks she's leaving her longer.
I don't understand the big deal either? Am i missing something here?
If you cant take care of a child, keep your legs closed or use birth control. Its not right to drop your child off to someone else to raise, but I dont think she is doing that she is just getting stable and getting her daughter. Even if it was a month thats not long, but any longer is just laziness.
Why would you tell your mother that on tv?!!! Just for the drama?!! You could have told her from the start in private! You really are messed up Farrah!! Seriously! Thats f***ing harsh!
If it's for 2 weeks that's one thing but 2 years that's just poor parenting. College is not an excuse to abandon your daughter. Plus the fact that was not her only choice, she could have went to a local college so that her parents could watch Sophia. Carla that's said that you would be so quick to leave your child, college is a good thing but not at the expense of your child, motherhood is more important then college any day.
i think everyone here needs to stfu farrah is a great mom.. and as a mom myself she is doing whats best for her child... if i had the oppurtunity to do the same trust me i would, at least out of all the moms she completed college and got an associates degree...that being said leave her the fuqk alone.. i know that sooner or later sophia is going to be proud of her mom and say she did it :)