Lori argues with her mom about having a baby shower. Episode airs next Tuesday at 10/9c.
Loris mom is a total B***h! Thats all i have to say!
I don't know what you were watching but the whole episode lori's mom did see keeping the baby as an option. At one point Lori's mom said something like "we have to make this go away" You should not be bad mouthing Lori but instead look at the way her mom acted so selfishly.
I was in both of you two young lady place I was 31 years old, and I had a son that was going on one years old and I was pregnant with another one. Well my mom is againt give them up or adoption. Well I told my mom and her answer was did I do any of them two things to you? I ask her what is she talking about I grow up with you and 4 brother and 4 sister you and a father so NO I said! Her answer was you better not do anything to my grandchild! if you don't want him or her I will take it. I had her and She was so beautifull I thank GOD for her everyone wanted her the father told everyone to go out and have their own, I laughted at them. You know I wish that I could take all you young lady in my house with me my husband and my 2 kids. LORI I watch you and your adopted mother, she is bless that she got you. Your adopted father seem like he was on your side more then her and that was crazy, You know? I have a son and daughter, my husband is their step father and he love them two so much I can't under stand, what them three are doing. Sometime them three team up againt me went thhey are picking sides you know? You know if I had room I would take all you young lady's that had to give up your child because someone else told them they had to.LORI I what I wanted to do to( YOUR ADOPTED MOTHER WHAT THE SAVIOR WOULDN'T LIKE OK) But I am walking with the lord JESUS CHRIST AND THE HOLY HEAVENLY FATHER GOD. I LOVE THEM BOTH SO I CAN'T HATE NO ONE THE FATHER SAID.Lori I have to say that your adopted mother is so BLESS because she have you, your mother gave up you so she can have you so what was her problem? (OH MY LORD JESUS CHRIST WHY OH WHY DID YOU GIVE THIS CHILD OF YOUR'S LORI HAD TO BE GIVEN TO HER LORD WHY LORD WHY? WELL YOU HAD YOUR REASON LORD YOU HAD YOUR REASON.) Well Lori I don't have much but if and I mean if you had to go through that again e-mail me and I will do my best to keep you and your child togehter. Lori and Angel may the father be with you. Angel you was a woman you was 19 you could have got on your own what and why you didn't get help be side, your mother help? Well you and Lori be BLESS ok and I send you both my love. CHAR
Lori Hi i am 38 yrs old and was in your shoes 18 years ago I found out i was pregnant at 19 i didn't have anyplace to live so i moved back home with my mom the whole time i was there she was telling me that i should give my baby up for adoption I tried to make my mom understand that i wanted to keep my baby but she wouldn't budge when i was 7 months pregnant i went to an agency.I ultimately decided to give my baby up I can't say that i totally regret my decesion i will say that I chose the perfect family for my baby aside from me i couldn't give him the things i always wanted but the people that did adopt him could I get letters and pictures every year and we are even friends on facebook and myspace my boy knows that he was adopted and that he was loved I send him birthday cards and gifts on his birthday and he has 2 brothers that love him and toatly know about him and love him they can't wait to finally meet him I do to some extent regret giving him up but he has a life that i could never give him. so please don't jump into this it's the hardest thing you will ever do there aren't any challenges you will face in your life that compare to how hard this is i think about my baby every day there isn''t a minute that goes by that he's not on my mind if my situation was different i wouldn't have done it but please think about it hard and it's permamanet ,
Lori, Dont listen do anyone who puts you down for your decision. I think that your parents are awesome and were there for you one hundred percent. Being a mother is hard work very hard, i got pregnant and had a baby when i was 17 years old. Although my daughter is the love if my life and never ever do i regret her but people are built differantly. You giving that baby to those nice people was a great decision. I'm not religious, at all, but i do believe that everything happens for a reason and when one door closes another one opens and i commend you for making such a hard decision. Keep your head up, your a great girl with a HUGE heart and DO NOT let anyone tell you differantly. It was your choice, not anyone elses.
my name is tara i am 17 i was 15 when i had a baby i wasnt even able to get a job somehow though i managed to make it through it with my mothers help abortion or adoption wasnt even an option i think if ur brave enough to spread ur legs and get pregnant with it you should be woman enough to have it and take care of it... shame on ur mom for making u make the decision u made if i can do it anybody can thank god i had a mom and dad that loved and supported me and my child i also think that u and tyler and katelynn should not be on teen mom because you all will experience the life as a parent nor should u....ur baby was a gift from god and what ur mom said she aint very catholic to me she needs to rethink her religions and one catholic to another SHAME ON HER!!! and if doctor drew reads these u should not be on teen mom!! tara
Lori - Shame on your mom and dad, they NEVER thought about what was best for you or your baby, they only thought about was best for them. I hope they watch this episode and see themselves as we all saw them, two HEARTLESS individuals who didn't give a crap about your feelings at all. They disgust me and it pisses me off every single time I watch it. I wish I could have a face to face discussion with her and give her a piece of my mind.
hey i had my baby at 18 he is the most adorable child i ever could lay eyes on ....don't give up ur child girl
To Lori's mom, I hope when you watch this episode, it makes you take a hard look at yourself. Shame on you.
i could never give my baby up for adoption. i had her at 17 and i dont know what i would do without her. yes its hard but shes worth working hard for!
I HAVE TO SAY I AGREE 100%
WHAT RIGHT OR WRONG???? I WAS 16 WHEN I HAD MY BABY GIRL AND I DONT THINK THAT I COULD HIVE MY BABY AWAY EVERYONE AND I MEAN EVERYONE TOLD ME TO NOT HAVE HER BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY IT WAS MY DECISION TO MAKE AND SHE IS 8 YRS OLD...SO IT HAS UP TO HER TO SEE IF SHE REALLY WANT TO KEEP IT SHE COULD OF FINE A WAY...IM NOT SAYING IS EASY BUT THIS SOO MUCH THE JOY THAT UR KID COULD BRING TO UR LIFE....ONE MORE THING MY MOM ABANDONED ALL OF HER 5 KID I WILL NEVER HIVE MY GIRLS.....AT THE END OF THE DAY WE ARE IN USA THERE SO MANY PROGRAMS THAT COULD HELP TEEN MOMS SHE KNEW WHAT SHE WAS DOING.....OH AND HER MOM DONT REALLY LIKE HER.....SHE IS THAT NOT A MOTHER...i HAVE NO NAME FOR THAT
Lori I thought this poem incredible beautiful. I hope this helps you through the tough times. So many wrong decisions in my past, I'm not quite sure If I can ever hope to trust my judgement anymore. But lately I've been thinking, Cause it's all I've had to do. And in my heart I feel that I Should give this child to you. And maybe, you could tell your baby, When you love him so, that he's been loved before, By someone, who delivered your son, From God's arms, to my arms, to yours. If you choose to tell him, If he wants to know, How the one who gave him life Could bear to let him go. Just tell him there were sleepless nights, I prayed and paced the floors, And knew the only peace I'd find, Was if this child was yours. And maybe, you could tell your baby, When you love him so, that he's been loved before, By someone, who delivered your son, From God's arms, to my arms, to yours. This may not be the answer, For another girl like me. But I'm not on a soapbox, Saying how we all should be. I'm just trusting in my feelings, And I'm trusting God above, And I'm trusting you can give this baby Both his mothers' love. And maybe, you could tell your baby, When you love him so, that he's been loved before, By someone, who delivered your son, From God's arms, to my arms, to yours.
Lori made the best choice in my eyes simply because of the pressure that her parents and her boyfriend put on her. Her parents and her ex were all about what they wanted but if they had a half a brain collectively they would ask her what she wanted for the baby. But all they ever did was push their opinions on Lori. At least her son is with a good family now and she will be honored as they birth mother which will make the transition easier for her.
I WAS IN NO POSITION TO HAVE A CHILD! I MADE MYSELF MOVE INTO THAT POSITION! I do what I have to to care for my baby boy! I have nobody to help its me and his father and we both HAD to BECOME PARENTS! We were given a gift and we accepted it with open arms! THANK YOU GOD FOR OUR BLESSING!!!
I agree with children being a blessing from God. Too often people get caught up with theirselfs and not being responsible, to look at children as gifts. I wish there was a way to not allow people to be able to concieve until they were ready to care for their children. Think about how many people choose adoption but think about how many others choose abortion and many choose abortion several times! A CHILDS FUTURE SHOULD NOT BE YOUR "FOLLOW UP BIRTH CONTROL" I understand things happen everyones situation is diffrent but a childs life should not be risked ever! SORRY I JUST COULD GO ON AND ON!
I love what you said!!!!!!!!
I hate your parents!! Im sorry you had to go through that during your pregnancy! You should have had a happy pregnancy no matter what you age! WE COULD ALL TELL YOU WANTED TO KEEP YOUR BABY! Your mother was selfish!! Im not all religious, i made the assumption your mother is but i dont think god would "bless" you just for you to give him you blessing away and feel sad about it. Cory wanted him too! You should had step up more! My heart goes out to you! Your baby was BEAUTIFUL!!! I hope you eventually heal from this!