Amber talks about wanting to work things out with Gary for the sake of their daughter, Leah.
omg she looks so fat in this picture llol ahahahahahahahhaha lmao omg no offense
did you find it? cause i wanna see it too
where do i go to hear what she says about losing all her baby weight?
i cant find it and i want to know lol :)
Gary works 12 HOURS a day. When is he suppose to watch Leah? If he goes to work at 5:00 in the morning he won't get home until 5:00 in the afternoon. And Amber doesn't raise Leah, she sits on her butt and watches her crawl all over the floor. I've never seen her count, read, or play w/ her. She doesn't even change her diaper. Did u see what her diaper looked like when Gary came to visit. He got his daughter and change her w/out having to be asked to, and that diaper was full to capacity. Amber doesn't even do her stay at home mom responsibilities. She wants Gary to work a 12 hour day then come home and do her job. (clean) I do feel they should both care for Leah though, there is nothing wrong w/ her asking for his help in that way. She could ask in a more mature way though.
Amber must be easier with him.
i see that alot of ur comments have very good points... i agree to many of them. Amber what you need to do is sit down with gary and just talk about what is bothering u both...put idk 3-5 minutes each. one person talks and the other just listens...no interruptions just listen to what the other person has to say...and when that person is done the next person talk for 3-5 minutes and the other just listens...if u guys have alot to say do it a couple times...no yelling no cursing just talk...and then just talk about what can be changed...again no yelling or cursing and u wont believe how better ur relationship will be afterwards...trust me it works in any bad situation...only cuz u r young doesnt mean u cant be mature and work things out... :)
Having a job does not = being a good father, and vice versa for moms! I've been with my husband for almost twenty years, and we have an 18 year old daughter (her and I started watching this show together). We both work full time jobs, and we both clean the house, cook supper, and shared in ALL parental responsibilities when our daughter was too young to care for herself. Gary is a lazy, irresponsible father! Amber is trying to better herself for her daughter and she is not receiving ANY support, other than financial, from Gary. Gary said it all in episode 5....."it's all about money"... Well, I'm sorry it's not. It's all about emotional support, sharing in household responsibilities, and supporting each other in every other way two loving MATURE adults should, Whether it be helping your spouse/bf/gf while they are trying to better themselves with education or any other endeavor. Gary does NONE of those things. And the reason he does none of those things is because he is a lazy, selfish person!
I see most of the blame being put on Gary and its not jus him you add to the stress in the house as well. This man works his butt off to take care of yall and you are always on his case about nothing. You need to stop with all the nagging and ussing around your child. From what I have seen he does eveything in his power to provide and care for you 2 so cut him some slack.
You are so lucky!! Gary is one of the greatest men on earth!! He is such a great and loving man! Your daughter can only be so lucky!! Mine wasn't!! I really know now the importance of having a loving man in your daughter's life. I'm 37 years old now thought, so don't let YOU get in the way of YOU ALL!!! Your family!!! Trust me, it could be A LOT WORSE!!! Leah, Gary and you are worth the try!
And yes! Granted being a mother is a full time, that is where all of the grandparents are responsible! They need to step up and help once in a while too!
And yes Amber, you should be getting help for PPD.
Good luck from San Diego!
yessss! she is so annoyingg!
hi amber im nay i can relate to all of yall on the show but u n maci mostly. i jus had my second girl on the 18th of dec n i go to a community college wth two jobs so i kno how difficult it is to juggle the baby n school work n a boyfriend the **** gets hard everyday n being stuck n it doesnt make it any better. sometimes i wish that the men can take our place for a wk n see how hard it is n deal with the complainin frm the other spouse n jus mayb they can appreciate us more. keep ya head up n sometimes u got to do whats best for u so u can better ur situation with ya baby.
Omg, i can really relate to amber! She and Gary are so much like my boyfriend and me! I completely understand what she's going through and why they act the way they do, because my boyfriend and I are having the same problems. She's doing her best and Gary isn't a bad guy, they're just trying to make it and its going to be a bumpy ride. When you're thrown into parenthood it can be extreamly tirering emotionaly, some people can cope with it easier than others and I've noticed that a lot of people don't see that. I really hope that they can make it but who knows!
Amber needs medication, parenting & anger management classes. Gary needs parenting classes also. You never know it might help if they went to parenting classes together. I have to give Gary that one atleast he has a JOB! But being a at-home-mom is a full time job also.
Why is everyone hateing on Amber? Yea she is a little immture...but shes young..she is a good mother, and takes care of her daughter. Gary is an ******* just becouse he works doesnt mean he shouldnt have to help with they baby, being a mother is a full time job. Mothers never get brakes.. atleast Gary gets to get out of the house, and talk to other people even if it is just at work. I completely understand Amber. Shes depressed yes, and has others problems..Being a mom is hard enough without the whole world watching and judgeing you. We only know what MTV shows us . Amber i think your doing a great job. Keep being a great mom and doing good in school. Get a good job after school, make good money..and then leave gary and raise the baby on your own. You deserve better..and i think you would be alot happier.
i was a teen mom myself and so was my husband but our son was always our priority..sttttooopppp whining amber, grow the hell up the world never said they were going to put their hands out to amber. you gotta do things for yourself and growing up is on of them and i think yall shul hav put that baby up for adoption it senses the stress and tension in that home and thats why she so darn cranky all the time because you are always tense and whining growwwww up ..when you had that baby you gave your life away its your babys now , i think its time u start acting like it
I think she dose act like a spoiled brat And i was a teen mom so I know how it is and yes Gary maybe immature but guys never grow up faster then us girls when I was 15 I had a baby and I was a single mother basically the whole time baby has been born besides the last 2 years I also have a 15 month old I think Ambers Got a surprise in life and I think they both need to grow and its hard but amber makes it look harder and it really is not that way.
Last I checked Assault by strangulation was a felony so I dont think Amber is all that innocent... She needs to grow up and understand that working a real job is what normal parents do and deal with life as it happens... No one gets it handed to them but for some reason she feels life is all about her lazy self...
I think you and I are watching different shows. In the show YOU watch, Amber does a lot while Gary does nothing. I think you only watched the episode where he was watching the baby & she peed through her diaper. Didn't you watch the other shows where Amber acts like a sopiled brat and demands EVERYTHING? I am a mom, I also deal with depression & anxiety but it doesn't make me verbally abuse or hit people or demand to be treated like a princess while acting like a lazy spoiled brat. Amber, grow up!
Amber is not dumb!!! as you saw on the first episode of teen mum, she has an anxiety and depression, its not easy doing anything when you have those and Amber does a lot. Gary is way too immature, he was worried that the baby wasn't having some clothes on when she was totally tired but he put her for a nap without changing her diapers. Everything is on Amber and he is not the poor victim he says stuff to Amber that isn't very nice. on top of that they are young living together and having a baby, those are very stressing factors too. Gary should take Amber more seriously. Maybe its better for them to split up a while. I think they don't want to argue in front of Leah but it bursts out and it is definitely not good for her. I wish Amber that she gets help somewhere, because Gary is too immature for doing that right now. It was bad that she hit him but I can understand that she flipped under the loads off pressure and Gary is totally unrespectful.
Besides Amber is not fat and if she were, that is not a character issue, so please stop bashing on her!
SHUT UP YOU STUPID ***!!!!