Kayla is single, unemployed and pregnant, with zero support coming from the baby's father. 22 year old Amanda lives with her girlfriend and is pregnant as a result of a one night stand.
Kayla stay strong! I admire your strength and courage. Most girls your age couldn't have done what you are doing not to mention the fact that you did it while battling addiction. I wish the best for you. Your baby is in good hands and will thank you some day. Amanda's Baby daddy was very selfish. He was jobless and never gave the adoptive parents a chance. Amanda should have trusted her gut but I hope she forgives herself and finds herself some day. She really needs to grow up. Good luck to both girls.
dcook- you know whats stupid is that you can't even spell the word stupid correct.
i think both these women are worthless. They are what is wrong with this world out screwing whatever and then not taking responiblity for their ***** ups. What a joke having kid and getting rid how about this dont go around and ***** whatever you want. It is really stupiod for people to say you cant judge unless you have been there that is also stupiod just because you are a ***** like them does not make me feel sorry for you or them. People that go around getting pregant and cant take care of the kid need to executed.
Unemployed, food stamps etc. But nice computers and laptop!
oh btw you can get unemployment up to 4 weeks BEFORE a natural birth 6 if ceaserian! lol
im so proud of them ive been through this and it is so unimaginably hard! i remember i would get nosebleeds or pass out, out of nowhere because of the stress. Seriously you cant judge the situation unless you have been there!
I think it would be harder for me to have an open adoption if I were to give a child up. Seeing your child, spending time with him/her, connecting...only to drop them off at their "parents'" home and have your child call someone else Mommy and Daddy. I'd have to cut communication off completely or I'd go insane.
i agree with jrdec174
How would you know if she didn't take preventative measures to not have children? You obviously weren't there. The only sure proof way of not getting pregnant is to NEVER HAVE SEX. Obviously life happens, people have sex, and sometimes they are on BC and use a condom and they still get pregnant. I know a lot of girls like that. So I'd keep your biased mouth shut before i'd say she needs to stop "spreading her legs." And adoption can be a very beautiful process. I know people who have loved it and who have hated it. There is no perfect answer in pregnancy. Unless you're in their shoes don't share your negative opinions.
i dont like that amanda girl, she seems selfish and self absorbed.
i just want to scream through the computer at them to keep their babies.
There are very loving responsible couples out there that simply can't conceive but are ready and capable of opening up their hearts and homes to raise a child. To opt for adoption women are giving are giving a priceless gift both to their babies and to the adoptive parents. It takes a very strong woman to make this decision.
What a great social worker!!!
It is obvious to me that the people making rude comments don't know what they are talking about. No, I am not a birth mother. I am a part of the adoption community though. I have been through two successful adoptions and my fair share of failed adoptions. In that process I have learned that you do NOT get to judge a birth mom. Their decisions are made on what they think is best for the baby. I do not believe that it is a decision taken lightly for ANYONE. Everyone loves their baby. Adoption does not mean that they don't care. We are not living their lives, so we do not get to judge their choices! I am thankful every day for the choice that my two sons birth mothers made. I know that they were both extremely strong women to be able to go through with placing their child for adoption. If it were not for their strength and love I would not have a family.
1ST AND FOR MOST Y WOULD U OPEN YA LEGS WHEN U DONT KNOW THE CONSEQUENCES THAT WILL AROSE. DAMN WAS THE SEX THAT GOOD. WHERE WOULD U BE IF YA MOM GOT RID OF U. YA CHILD IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN ANYTHING IN THIS WORLD. SO IF EVERYDAY IS A STRUGGLE FOR U THEN MAKE MATTERS BETTER TRY TO DO WHATS RIGHT. DONT MAKE EXCUSES FOR YASELF.
it's been like what, 5 or 6 months since mtv has posted a new episode!! Please for the love of good god keep on posting them!
if i qot preqnant, id keep it no matta wutt..! cuz it wuld b ma own babyy n no one elseaz.
I would never give my child away ~