Becoming a dad changes things. After a lot of rumors and speculation, Bow Wow admitted last year on his website that he had fathered his first child, a baby girl named Shai.
At first, the 24-year-old rapper hid the truth because he was “nervous” about how his fans, who have been following him since he first debuted at 13 years old, would look at him. On Wednesday’s “RapFix Live,” Bow (real name: Shad Gregory Moss) had no reservations about opening up about fatherhood.
“For me, it’s just the quality time I get. I’m Bow Wow all the time. To the world, I’m Bow Wow. When I leave here and I go to L.A. and I go to my daughter’s house and I sit with her, I feel like Shad. I’m not Bow; I’m daddy,” he told MTV News correspondent Sway. “It’s, like, the illest feeling in the world. I feel like I’m away from everything.”
The feeling has even spilled over into the studio. On his upcoming album, Underrated, Bow said he will include “Boy or Girl,” a previously released mixtape track on which he rhymes about being a dad. “The record just hit home, because it was just honest. Right then, I was like, ’Yo, I have to make honest records. I gotta be more personal, I gotta be more honest,’ ” Bow said. “That’s what music is about.”
On January 8, Jay-Z joined the ranks of famous rapper dads when he and wife Beyoncé welcomed Blue Ivy Carter into the world. It seems like, more than ever, MCs are opening up publicly about their children. Jay released “Glory,” a single that featured baby Blue crying at the end; T.I. stars in a new reality show with his wife and their six children; and Fabolous has been getting more personal in his music since the birth of his son, Johan.